Saturday, December 5, 2009

Cheating

I hate for my first blog to be on this subject… but it’s relevant to our world right now.

If you have even come close to a news channel or website you would have seen alot about cheating lately.   Of course cheating is all over the news, radio, and internet.  A lot of celebs are cheating lately… Tiger Woods, Jude Law, and Eric Benet (and how could you cheat on Halle Berry??).  Even politicians are cheating all over that place.  But as we look at those who make the news, we have to look at the rest of society.

I was having a conversation with a good friend the other day, and she talked about how a friend of hers admits he doesn’t know a guy who hasn’t cheated.  That’s kind of scary for all you straight girls or gay guys out there.  However, society likes to pretend only guys cheat.  That’s definitely not true.  Women are just as guilty of cheating and probably just as often.  From my experience with girls I’ve dated, girls my girlfriend dated in the past, and girls other girls/guys I know have dated, there is just as much cheating in the female lifestyle.

So what makes people cheat?  I don’t claim to know the answer, but I have opinions.  Part of it is a lack of respect for the person you are with and your relationship.  If you must sleep or be with this other person, break your current relationship off.  I am sure your significant other will appreciate the honesty.  It also shows a lack of character.  You are hurting the person you claim to love and you promised to be faithful to.  That is such a lack of dishonesty on your part.  I can go on forever, but I don’t want this to turn into a rant.  I could really go on forever I feel so strongly about this subject.  I’ll end here, however, and let you leave your own comment.

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